How could you rewrite one of these attitudes to be more supportive of your pleasure?

Are you finding it easy or difficult to reframe it?

It is empowering to make myself feel good

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Everyone is different and it’s okay to take a while to get there!

I deserve the same level of pleasure my partner does.

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I want him to learn me. I may not have the answers but learning is experimenting. I want us to learn together through the laughter, the awkwardness, fumbling.

I would see myself as good enough and wanted and feel good about my performance

It isn’t bad that I need extra time it just means I should soak it in slowly and be more present for myself and appreciate myself as a whole.

I am just at worthy of feeling pleasure as he is. Im more than just a sex object to him.

I want us both to be in sync with each other. But it always feels like bad timing

I was made perfect for me