-Been with my girlfriend for a year now and at the start of our relationship I would always go soft just before sex and realised this was performance anxiety. After months I overcome this problem and everything got slightly better as I could hold an erection but would finish straight away or really early into sex 10seconds -2minutes. However whenever I’ve consumed alcohol I can a very long time sometimes up to an hour. Just wondering if any one else has had a similar problem and what does anyone suggest to help me last longer while I’m sober
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Happens the same to me! But I still go soft just before sex, how did you overcome this?
It’s all in your head. Once it happens once it stresses you out and it’ll just keep happening unless you try forget about going soft completely. You need to go in to sex confident your gonna give your partner a good time. It’s definitely in your head and a confidence thing. But now when I have sex it’s not long at all I finish very quick and I thought it could be with being so in love with my girl. But when I’ve had a few drinks I can go very long