I’ve finally fixed a problem I’ve been having since the first time I had sex and want to share my success story for others with similar issues. In the past I was never able to cum from vaginal sex, and always needed to finish myself off. This made sex less enjoyable and kind of awkward. I’ve been having more sex recently but my problem persisted and I finally decided to really do a hard reset. Here’s what I did:
I’ve been using Mojo for about 5 months but the past three weeks have been the X factor that fixed my problem. The first two steps are essential.
First - full stop porn and masturbating. Take at least 2 weeks off minimum.
Second - moisturize your penis with oil twice a day ( such as coconut oil, shea butter, or olive oil )
Third - do daily meditation series on Mojo, I recommend the getting out of your head during sex series and the boosting your arousal series.
Forth - when your two weeks of abstaining is over; Ideally wait to have sex or handjob or blowjob from a partner. If you don’t have a partner, do not use your usual masturbation technique. Use a loose toy, non-dominant hand with light grip(try not using your thumb). It’s time to fully leave porn behind too, unfollow and block gooner content on social media helps too
These steps cured a life long problem and I’m so glad it’s finally fixed, I feel like I can experience sex properly now. I hope it can help you too
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Thanks for the advice. Ill try exactly this, just need to explain to the other half to keep her hands off me for 2 weeks…
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Good luck with it! I forgot to mention kegels and reverse kegels exercises are helpful too. 3-4 times a week
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Porn can be really damaging when it comes to your sex life. It’s good that you removed it from your life. I’m now 51 days abstained from it :). Keep it going and thanks for the tips!
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It’s really inspiring reading this I keep on failing after like 3 days or so but I’ll try better to hold off from watching porn and masturbating
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Damn bro- CONGRATS!!!
You’re an inspiration!!
This weekend I had to finish myself a couple times. It’s soooo annoying. She’d cum a few times from oral and a couple times during sex. I was able to F her for like 15 min where I got close a couple times but I was wore out. I asked her to finish me. She’s 
for making me finish, but my body wouldn’t let it happen… took me an additional 15-20 min to get myself off. It was spectacular and I slept like a dog in the sun, but Sunday night was another story, I couldn’t even finish myself. Super frustrating.
After years of suffering with this in going to follow these steps. Congrats on the victory brother. Love the success story
Really enjoyed this post, looking forward to trying the advice
I’ve heard this is called death grip from masturbation and can affect vaginal penetration success. When you masturbate too hard, or get used to a certain rhythm, you can only climax from that same technique making you fail to climax from vaginal. The method you described actually worked for me as well! Abstain, lighten grip, go slower and you’ll see success.
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Delayed Ejaculation is exactly what I’ve come here to try and overcome. I’ve tried chalking it up to medications, surgeries and overall health status but it boils down to the fact I’ve spent 20 years doing it myself to porn.
My previous marriage I took care of myself throughout the week
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And sex was once a week, where I usually did finish but not always and used to fake a pull or cramps.
Now I’m in an amazing relationship where her sex drive is through the roof.
I absolutely love it, I love being intimate with her and get off/gratification on seeing her climaxing multiple times. But then I don’t the majority of times and it cause her to doubt herself and abilities, or even if I am attracted to her.
It’s usually in a really set position with lots of pulling and hard thrusting which is exhausting.
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Wow, this is exactly my issue, and my wife largely rejected me sexuality for first twenty years of marriage but now interested and I can’t cum which I assumed was because I was no longer attracted to her (which is also possibly true).
But definitely relied on masturbation for those two decades.
What is the twice daily oiling for?
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Did you experience tough withdrawals? After a few days I find it feels like I’m going a bit crazy
I struggle with this too, but I’ve been chalking it up to my horrible anxiety. Literally hooked up with a guy last night and had to say that “I have challenges around climax, but I’m happy to sort you out”. I don’t want to have to say that anymore…
I’ve screenshot your post and will keep referring back to it. I need to get over this.
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I struggle wirh having sex all the time because I normally finish within about 2mins after pentration with my girlfriend