I’m single and have been for years. In this time my ability to perform has fallen massively. If I can get hard at all it’s barely 3/4 of what it used to be and I’m experiencing a lot of shrinkage. I get sad even thinking about sex or feeling attraction to someone. I’ve had my testosterone checked a few times and it’s in the normal range. I feel trapped in a cycle of not being able to perform, which takes away any confidence and charisma I would need to attract a partner. And it seems like the only way to conquer these issues is to have healthy sexual encounters. I’ll go on dates, and people like me, but only see me as a friend. I assume it’s because I don’t have any confidence that attracts people. I only watch poem maybe once a month, and I exercise. Is my situation hopeless?
I don’t think your situation is hopeless at all. If you are getting dates you are winning half the battle. You just need to get out of the friend zone. To do this you need to be authentic and genuine. You also need a life that is going to captivate women. You need to be doing interesting things and have hobbies that you do for yourself and enjoy and have things you are passionate about ex: sports, jobs, projects, volunteering, music, travel, movies, etc. etc. There is no right answer here, just do something you love and are passionate about and find some with the same interests. Once you find someone interested in you, you’ll be more confident in bed and won’t have issues and doing all the exercises in this app will help. A book that has helped me and I highly recommend reading is Models - Attract Women Through Honesty. It is a game changer!