Lose erection just before penetration

[special-silver-aardvark]

I’m hoping someone here currently is or has been in a similar situation and can help.

I don’t have a problem getting hard or even staying hard really, until it comes to penetration. Then it just goes.

I’ve found Mojo helpful, it’s given me some reassurance and some useful techniques - I get it’s all in my head and probably linked to anxiety, but does anyone who might have experienced the same issue got any tips or can share what they found most useful? I’d very grateful

I’ve got a very understanding partner thankfully, but I want to make progress!

[geographical-aquamarine-sailfish]

Maybe try the meditations and exercises centred around spectatoring. Take it slow and easy with the girl, it’s great that she’s understanding. Be patient and open and don’t be hard on yourself, once the anxiety calms it should be much better. Easier said than done but maybe just have to give it time and try to reorient your headspace