I have tried Blue Chews and had some success using the generic viagra. I also did the “hims” cialis for a few days but stopped using it. Anyone have any success or failures with these products?
Generic viagra has worked well for me generally. I am curious about this rugiet which is in my Algorithm big time. When I take the generic I can take 20-60mg. Usually take 40 but vary it. Physicaally it works for me except when my brain gets in the way. My ED is much more psychological than anything.
My ED is definitely psychological. I have tried all the different pills and can’t seem to get past the mental blocks.
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Yeah, I’ve been down the ED meds road. For me the trap was using the pill like a safety blanket. It slowly made my anxiety worse, because sex turned even more into a test, and on the days without it I trusted my body even less. Anxiety can absolutely cut through the meds, especially over time.
What actually helped was treating it as optional support, not the solution. Using it sometimes to relax and stack a few good experiences is fine, but chasing quick fixes and certainty can backfire long term. The progress came when I worked on the head stuff in parallel, slower pace, less goal chasing, and stopping the constant monitoring.
Also, talking to my wife reduced the shame and pressure a lot. And if you use Cialis or Viagra, I’d stick to a doctor or legit pharmacy so you know the dose and product are reliable.
Unfortunately my friend, the pills are must for some men who struggle with sex related anxiety.
So I went through a 4 year spell without any ED issues happening, start of the relationship for a full year it was temperamental and then towards the end. Some men are just wired differently and the medicine is there to help, but like you said if you’re going to use the medication then you need to work alongside it “mindfulness, breathing, lowering the stress.”
Some men have sensitive nervous systems, thr same system that makes it difficult for some men to urinate at public urinals. Rationally we want to do it but the body says “no”.
I keep myself in shape, meditate and do everything I possibly can to lower my stress and I still have these issues. So I take medication in the form of cialis. I’m 33. I’m young and healthy; the stigma of relying on medication needs to stop because some do need these pills now. It’s factual and the statistics prove it. They’re only going to get better and better for men with ED also. But the way thr human brain is evolving to life in general it’s just making life much more difficult for men to perform in the bedroom. We need all the help we can get.