Menopause affects everyone differently. Were there changes you didn't expect, or things that turned out differently than what you'd heard?

What surprised you most about how menopause has affected your sex life?

The fact that I don’t want it anymore.

The low sex drive and dryness

Low sex drive

No desire for sex and can’t climax or even get to that start

I don’t think I’ve began any of the stages yet, even though I’m 43? I could of course be wrong but, My period is like clock work regular and heavy , my sex drive is still at an all time high (I’d have sex 5 or more times a day if i could), my va-jay-jay is still nice and moist, there’s no pain during sex unless it’s been awhile since I’ve had any.

I am here with you! It’s crazy. I am also 43 and my sex drive has been high for the last 5 years. I feel like I’m definitely in my “prime”. I am afraid of this changing. My husband loves that I can’t get enough.

Im 43 years old and my periods are heavier but My sex drive is high right now and has been for 5 years or more. The weight gain is what I hate.

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I went from an high sex drive to an not wanting sex so much.