Can anyone remember what it was like before we had this issue?
What is was like when you were excited to see a new partner, and it “not working” was never even a thought?
I honestly can’t, and now it comes to mind at strange times. I’ll be driving a car or sitting down at work and think to myself “why don’t I have an erection right now”.
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I can very much relate to what you are describing. Before I had issues with getting it up I only thought about my penis when hard and aroused, so my brain is not used to and thus uncomfortable with thinking about my penis when it is not hard.
I think the key is to get more comfortable with the idea of one’s penis not being hard (after all it is not hard most of the time) and then one can also be more comfortable with it not being hard when approaching sex.
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