Been dealing with this for about 5 years now, I completely gave up for about 2 years because I couldn’t face it, recently just got into a relationship and things aren’t much better than they were, it’s really really hard not to hate yourself sometimes, does anyone have any ways to distract yourself from thinking this way and shutting down the inner critic.
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Well if you’re in a relationship have you talked with them about it? The community can help but ultimately it goes down to how you and your partner feel. I’m fortunate in that I’ve dated people who were mostly understanding
Yeah she’s super nice about it and she says she doesn’t care about any of that and is with me for the emotional connection, that’s basically the best response you can get to it, she’s very open to try things out and see what works which is really helping, thanks for the response
She sounds like a great person to be with for you. Something that has helped me in my dating also is learning and being really into how to go down on a woman. I have a copy of She Comes First and it’s very enlightening.
Yeah I just ask her what she likes and what she doesn’t, communication is key when you want to please her
I’m having the same issues and that’s why I decided to try Mojo. I’m hoping it will help fix this.
Please keep the faith… this stuff is really frustrating but Mojo has helped me a lot.
Ok… not perfect but massive improvement and better self esteem.
This doesn’t get full approval in this site but I took a combination approach
Mojo
Cialis
OMGYES
To he honest …MOJO gets most of the way… I use low dose Cialis if im feeling a bit “out of sorts” and OMGYES was an eye opener.. she’ll love it.. and it boosted my sexual confidence..
Good luck out there..