One step forward few steps back

I’ve been seeing this girl for close to 7 months now. I had erection struggles the first few times we got intimate, but that mostly went away as I got comfortable with her. I do use cialis for a boost also. Despite my erection issues not really being an issue for us anymore, I still always get nervous before I see her. Usually it ends up fine.

This weekend she came over. She came up to my room and gave me a BJ in bed which was our plan. Everything worked great she got me massively hard.

Later that night we were getting into it again and it just wasn’t working. We both had drank a lot too but I wouldn’t say I was drunk. I got semi hard but not enough to penetrate and she got frustrated.

I feel really bad about letting her and me down. It’s frustrating to feel like I’m set back now in terms of confidence, and that I’ll be nervous again next time. I’m trying to stay up and remember I’ve had this before and got past it, can get past it again. I’m doing better overall in that I’m not crushed this time. But I just really hope next time goes better, Im worried about back to back flops :frowning:
Just wanted to vent and see if any guys here know this feeling, and the best way to get past it - maybe some success stories.

Thank you bros

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I know your pain lad
Was seeing a wan for a while was nervous enough at start was hard but would stay for long, would be semi . A few times I was too worried I’d let her down so didn’t try atall
She lost interest and drifted , understandable.

I’ve cut out gooning , sometimes I have a stroke or a play but don’t watch anything. I also take drops I ordered online

Still a work in progress:/

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What drops are these? Cheers!