Overthinking staying hard

[selected-plum-planarian]

So last night I was with a girl we massaged each other I was super turned on. Began kissing and feeling each other up . I was hard she stared playing with me and started sucking me. I was enjoying it and tried to get out of head but all I could think Is am I hard enough and how long and I’m going to be hard for.

Instantly lost it with the overthinking, what can I do in that position to stop the overthink , stay hard and just enjoy it

[lost-red-pelican]

Close your eyes and focus on your nose tip. That will keep your mind empty

[beautiful-white-shark]

Focus on how good the sensation feels, rather than focusing on how you’ll perform. And if you do get soft, don’t show them that it’s a begin deal.
Try and make light of it, be honest about how you feel, and maybe you can try again soon after.