Performance anxiety as the reason

🍆 Erection issues
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I went on a first date with a girl, one thing lead to another and we tried to have sex after a night of drinking, and I wasn’t able to perform. We hung out a few more times, but she now doesn’t want to pursue a romantic relationship.

Should I ask for closure, to see if my performance anxiety is part of the reason? I feel like it is, but I won’t believe her if she says it wasn’t .

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Doesn’t hurt to ask. I’ve been in similar situations before. You’re right you may not believe what she says…but maybe you will and maybe it’s something else

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What would this accomplish?

No closure needed on this one, move on. If she wanted to stay she would. She’s not for you.

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