So I’m a 23 y/o guy, have been talking to this girl for a couple years and going on one off dates w her every once in a while that never got more serious bc I’m only around for like 2-3 months in the summer and work full time outside of that and she has like 3 jobs so we’re both busy and not in the same place much.
A while back she texted me that she was housesitting alone and invited me over. We watched a movie, made out (which went really well) then my inner critic got to me and you can imagine the rest lmao
Since then I reached out to her once asking if she wanted to come over and finish what we started and she had a birthday dinner or whatever and we had a kinda dry conversation that ended w her leaving me on opened (but she did send a snap where she defo made a point to get her tits in the shot and was propping them up w her arms). Then I hit her up again the next weekend to ask her to come over and I’ve been on delivered for like 2 weeks
If she was a random hu I’d wave the white flag and move on but we had been friends for a while and she’s clearly been into me for multiple years. I wanna reach back out but idrk what to say. Was thinking ab asking her what the deal w her giving me the cold shoulder but we both kinda know…
she also avoided me all lest summer despite flirting constantly and I think it was bc she put on a lot of weight. She’s slimmer now (and honestly looks way better than when I met her and she was super skinny) but I feel like I might’ve made her super insecure which may be why she’s not responding to me
I’m pretty confident I wanna reach out again and give it another go but have no idea how to approach this convo