I stayed over at the new dates place last night. The condition of me sleeping over was that we wouldn’t have sex and I thought this was a good scenario.
It got raunchy and hot, and there was plenty of sensual touch. She allowed me to use my fingers, and I was able to bring her to climax.
I practised the box breathing throughout and felt better not having the pressure of sex to worry about.
I think the next time is going to be the big test. We have been very open with each other, but I haven’t told her I have struggled with performance anxiety over the last 6 months ths.
I know I can do this, and that once I penetrate things will be good.
Anu advice for next date?
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Yea! Dont consider is a “test.” That’s pressure. Consider it an opportunity to get sexy and raunchy.
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