I’m stuck in a pattern of using Cialisis whenever I see or spend time with my girlfriend as I’m scared of losing my erection when we’re being intimate. My girlfriend is understanding in the sense that she tells me it’s all in my head, but it’s so traumatic to feel like I’m letting her down and not meeting her needs. She’s also not feeling very body-confident and I don’t want her to think it’s linked - because it’s not. However, I really don’t want to keep depending on Cialisis, especially as it causes quite painful symptoms in my back after two days of usage, but I know that if I don’t take it, I’ll lose my erection during sex or may struggle to initiate.
Has anyone been through a similar experience and how did you overcome? I try to be positive but sometimes life-stress impedes progress too.
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I want to add that I’m 28, as I also feel ashamed of needing meds to support my sex life when I’m still in my 20s
I’m 27, on the same boat. I’m scared ill not be able to perform without taking meds. I am hoping this app can help me over come it
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We can do this. I wish you all the luck
Prob not the answer you guys are looking for but using Cialis for help is not the worst thing in the world. Its over the counter in most of Europe
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I have (and still am) a bit in the same boat.
After my first couple of “no shows” I went on Cialis, and it is good… but yes… I got the back pain… but TBH I put up with that to not suffer the embarrassment of ED.
Now the good news. Mojo has helped me realise that a lot of my ED was in my head… really a lot… probably most… possibly all.
It takes a leap of faith to trust the program and trust yourself.
Do I still take Cialis… yes if I think it’s going to be a busy couple of days… do I think it makes a difference… yes my hard one feel a bit harder… but really I am very sure there is a lot of placebo, confidence boosting going on.
How do I come to this conclusion… some days I am lucky, my girlfriend turns up… unannounced… no time to take the pill… and more importantly… no time to panic and get all worked up… great sex… hard … successful.
If I feel I’m losing it… the wax wane experience and pushing away my inner critic … keeps things going north…
And… yes less pills… less backache…
Trust the program… find your way back to less pills, but hey… treat yourself once in while… that’s my advice/experience
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no need to feel ashamed man, i just turned 19 and im having the same problems, im hoping this program will change it for me and my gf so i wont have to rely on pills
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Interesting you mention the back pain. I can hardly walk today my lower back is so locked up from taking Cialis last nihgt. I’m 28 as well.
I’ve been trying to reduce the amount. I started with 10mg, then cut that in half and still had great results. Then cut it into quarters and it didn’t work for me.
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I’m sorry to hear, that sounds really severe. Not sure if it’s right of me to be making recommendations of Cialis, but if you’re on it I might as well - I’ve been using Hims Hard Mints which are more discreet and are default (I think) at 8.5mg. Perhaps this might be a good compromise?
Wishing you all the best bud