Masturbate, in the shower, in room by myself, mainly keep it to myself. My wife doesn’t like talking about sex outside of sex.
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in the room when i masturbate,
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Not hugely right now, but I have a sense they might get to be more soon, and that’s awesome
Not shared, I fantasize over women I know I’ll never have sex with. Or with sexy friends I have where sex will never be on the table.
These fantasies are for my eyes only as they don’t involve my partner, and involve me living a different life. I’ll keep them that way
I think if anything an open conversation about what I fantasize my wife doing that aren’t too far - baby steps like perhaps wearing one of my button downs to see if there is mutual interest and have an open dialog where she is still comfortable and confident. That would be a huge win.
We’ve gotten as far as looking for a MFF threesome. I date on the side as long as I follow a few boundaries and rules. We’ve been together a long time, but over this past year things have gotten better. But it all began after our marriage was on the rocks. Communication became key. We had nothing to lose at that point, so we just laid it all out about our wants and needs. In and out of the bedroom.
They could be and would like to add them
Not much. We don’t really talk about fantasies. I have so many, and yet I’m so scared about bringing any of them up…which doesn’t make sense, considering what my girlfriend is into.
With my current partner, not much
I will bring this more into my life.
We don’t talk about fantasies but happy to try introducing them
A fantasy that has now become reality. For years we have had pillow talk about threesomes and more. 3 months ago a conversation came up about swinging and sex clubs and we agreed to check out the scene. We immediately fell in love with the lifestyle and now go every weekend. Our sex life is better than ever before.
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Share ones we can do together
Part of we all have them
I’ve been able to apply some of my fantasies to the bedroom before. My wife has dressed up in outfits I’ve fantasized her in a few times.
I would like to include them more.
For now, nonexistent. I’d like to give them a try
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I used to fantasize about lot. I want to get back into it.
Big part of my life…as someone always locked in my head, fantasies are really fun. They are not a part of my relationship, and I think I don’t want to share them with my partner. I do like the idea of using them internally to keep the momentum going when the time is right. I’ve never thought about creating an erotic bank to use deliberately for this purpose.
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