VR porn vs regular porn

I have been drawn to porn for years as a remedy for bordom, quick climax, etc. recently I have escalated to VR porn. This feels more like cheating and find myself riddled with guilt afterwards. Do others have a harder time kicking that habit than regular porn?

Why does it feel like cheating? Because it’s more realistic?

If that’s the case, if you were imagining yourself having sex with someone else, no porn but just visualising, would that also feel like cheating? More or less than the VR?