It’s always around when I currently think about sex but gets really intense during the event. Makes me feel very tense and alert
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Quite strong during foreplay and often during sex itself.
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It’s when I know I’m going to have sec I think about it all day
I learned mine is more of a feeling than a voice and it’s most intense as we’re getting ready to go to bed
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I realized that my inner critic is just a voice that leads into feelings
My inner critic appears typically when I feel pressure. It clearly gets in my head about sexual performance anxiety, and even outside of sex in social scenarios my inner critic will do exactly that, critique everything I think in regards to what I want to say. This is why I’m a very quiet, reserved person, is because I lead myself to believe that what I’m thinking of saying is stupid.
My erratic is almost always there. I experience it when I’m about to have sex or I’ve been told that I that we would get into some sexual intimacy later in the evening. There has been always situation where I naturally treat myself in a very hard manner and I want to be as perfect as possible when it comes to dealing with any situations
It’s inconsistent, which I think can help build dread because I don’t know if it’s going to show up. This in turn gets me more anxious, which in turn leads to it showing up
Mine comes when I think there will be a possibility of bedroom activities, just the fear of failure
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It happens as soon as I get a hint that there will be sex later. It tends to be forgotten and then doubles down when it’s about to happen
My inner critic shows when anything from my gf is sexual talk or her telling me she wants to have sex later , I tend to say I’m not say I’m not feeling well to cover up whilst I’m negative about myself
My inner critic shows up instantly at any thought of sex. I think it’s the the constant fear of failing again
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My inner critic shows up instantly at the mention of the possibility of ses and builds amd builds as the time approaches…culminating in its loudest which on most occasions breaks the mood and my erection.
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My inner critic seems to present themselves the very moment I either begin to think about sex, making plans for.sex, or in the pre acts of trying to have sex.
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Critic show up right before sex. He’s most strong if I fail to perform. Weak when I get wood
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It shows up right when I’m about to have sex, starts telling me all the things that could go wrong and how my partner will react to them
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It comes out when I feel like I’m underperformed, and then things spiral from there. The things I worry about end up becoming real the more I think about them.
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It appears as soon as sex is on the table
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As soon as I feel like things are leading to sex. I feel like I have to perform or I am less of a man and that scares the crap out of me
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It goes away during foreplay then comes back when I finally get hard
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