What’s an expanded definition of sex you wish you could live by?

[chosen-green-ape]

Feeling a bond with my wife through sex that is the absolute peak

[daily-plum-cat]

Being more dominant in bed and in social situations. Being totally dominant. I’ve repressed this my whole life. I’ve recently been more angry and this unleashed my dominant side and…I’m really enjoying it.

[intelligent-teal-ferret]

Adding in verbal desires, fantasies and request throughout the day. Ones that reflect true desires rather than cultural pressures.

[shaky-coffee-beetle]

Sharing intimacy with your partner and not feeling like you are holding back a part of yourself or trying to overly meet the other person’s expectations. Feeling an emotional and sexual bond that is shared mutually, and having fun!

[dynamic-gold-rooster]

Sharing intimacy. Kissing, touching, being affectionate

[outside-coral-rooster]

Just enjoying the pleasure you’re capable of

[lexical-tan-possum]

Sharing intimacy

[wise-crimson-mammal]

Enjoying and having fun sometimes. And a senses experience

[human-beige-pelican]

Connecting with another human being in an intimate and private way.

[superb-violet-bison]

Connecting on a physical and emotional level

[aware-maroon-wildebeest]

I’d like to be less concerned about my partner , and more ok with relishing the pleasure I’m having , especially during kinkier sex play.

[marine-red-mandrill]

I want to get hard and last but I really want lay there after sex with both of us completely content and completely vulnerable just laying there enjoying the moment

[visible-scarlet-bug]

Be comfortable with sex, be a little more aggressive and enjoy it, and particularly not worrying about meeting my partner expectations, just connect to a deep level.

[given-black-grouse]

being able to not worry on ladting long and not worrying on if my partner will be disappointed

[careful-gray-crane]

A joint experience of pleasure and fun with unexpected turns and no pressure to meet any expectations

[exciting-beige-reptile]

Just being fully in the moment exploring each others bodies with no pressure or expectations

[harsh-orange-crawdad]

I cuddled with a friend/lover and it felt more wonderful than anything else I’d experienced. Not a natural top, I felt like I was with him, bringing him pleasure - but we were also in love

[written-jade-moose]

I want to be desired and chased like a girl sometimes. But other times I want to dominate too.

[handsome-amethyst-puffin]

I want to be an animal, to dominate, to drive.

I want to be submissive, to be told what to do, to be owned

[handsome-amethyst-puffin]

I want to be treated like a sex god