What’s an expanded definition of sex you wish you could live by?

A sense of pleasure, anticipation, and release.

I like to do nasty and filthy things to my partners. I like to be in total complete and absolute control. I want them to feel like they are there for my pleasure. I also enjoy pleasing my partner. But I want them to trust me completely and know that I’m a leader in the bedroom who cares about both of our pleasure. Including our animalistic desires. 

I will definitely get hard and definitely stay hard and we will both be happy

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It’s the sharing of pleasure and intimacy between two people that is authentic and risky and fun

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That it’s about connection and sensation, not penetration and ejaculation

For me sex is an amazing and pleasurable channel of connection in which you can explore other aspects of what you are, what you want in and for your partner and hidden desires. I like to think I can have rough sex and also cuddle in the same night.

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The ability to drop the logical, level-headed part of me and plug into something more primal and animalistic

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Getting my needs met and releasing the animal that I know lies dormant under the surface. To express my darkness and experience pleasure and connection with my partner.

Sharing pleasure and intimacy while allowing both the more animal and more submissive sides of me to be seen, recognised, appreciated, and satisfied.

Getting my needs and her needs met, being able to connect with my other half.

I’d say it’s emotional and pleasurable. It’s enjoying what comes natural at the moment and embracing a side of each other that’s intimate and vulnerable. It’s sharing passion for each other in a way that suits the both of you, whether it’s sweaty rough sex or slow soft sex.

The tying together of the emotional, intellectual, and physical connection with my partner where there is deepest joy and pleasure.

It’s the mind and body in sync to enable the experience of full pleasure and surrender to it

making love to the person you trust the most

Feeling safe with my partner and being vulnerable, interesting to her. Feeling like you don’t need to hurry and enjoy each other’s intimate gazing at each other

Being intimate, whatever form that takes in any moment.

Giving the most amount of pleasure to my partner and making them cum. In general it is the intimate connection we share through our sexual organs whilst adding personal qualities to heighten the experience.

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Sex is about a physical connection with someone else.

Being able to fully give yourself to your partner, with your mind and body totally in sync, and where you’re both able to enjoy each other and the sensations and pleasure that arise, surrendering completely to the present moment, whether it’s rough and sweaty or slow and gentle. It’s about connection and pleasure and fun.

Having sex without the guidelines that I’ve been given. Feeling free to be aggressive then step back and have the wife take control for a bit