Disorganized for sure
I feel more secure now but with bits of the anxious one, although the more I look into it the more secure I feel
I can see both secure and anxious tendencies
At first I thought I had secure attachment when first looking at the types. After reading it all I realized that I checked every single box for anxious attachment.
Anxious and avoidant. What a lucky wife I have lol
You are working on it and on you. Your wife is lucky.
A bit of all of them, but I think anxious and avoidant at my worst.
Disorganised ![]()
I feel mine can fluctuate across all. Sometimes I feel very secure and sometimes anxious and avoidant
80%secure, 20% anxious.
The last one, a mix of anxious and distant. So very chaotic/dksorganized
Sometimes I feel very secure and sometimes anxious.
70% secure, 30% anxious
I was avoidant when I met my wife, but after years of being together I became more secure.
Definitely lean towards more of the anxious side. I want to become secure
Definitely anxious. A little unnerving reading the description to be honest. How do they know my thoughts? lol
I seem to have somewhat disorganised attachment. I struggle getting into and keeping relationships. Never really had a proper long term relationship and that seems embarrassing as someone in their late thirties.
Definitely disorganized.
Disorganised definitely
I think Iām disorganized because I identified with all of them.