Which attachment style resonates most with you?

Disorganized for sure

I feel more secure now but with bits of the anxious one, although the more I look into it the more secure I feel

I can see both secure and anxious tendencies

At first I thought I had secure attachment when first looking at the types. After reading it all I realized that I checked every single box for anxious attachment.

Anxious and avoidant. What a lucky wife I have lol

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You are working on it and on you. Your wife is lucky.

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A bit of all of them, but I think anxious and avoidant at my worst.

Disorganised :frowning:

I feel mine can fluctuate across all. Sometimes I feel very secure and sometimes anxious and avoidant

80%secure, 20% anxious.

The last one, a mix of anxious and distant. So very chaotic/dksorganized

Sometimes I feel very secure and sometimes anxious.

70% secure, 30% anxious

I was avoidant when I met my wife, but after years of being together I became more secure.

Definitely lean towards more of the anxious side. I want to become secure

Definitely anxious. A little unnerving reading the description to be honest. How do they know my thoughts? lol

I seem to have somewhat disorganised attachment. I struggle getting into and keeping relationships. Never really had a proper long term relationship and that seems embarrassing as someone in their late thirties.

Definitely disorganized.

Disorganised definitely

I think I’m disorganized because I identified with all of them.