Do any of these stories sound familiar?

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After I go soft I know it’s not gonna be a good session

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I really hate disappointing my partner

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Can’t get hard when I need to

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Was with a woman yesterday. Really wanted her but my body refused to cooperate :pensive_face: quite embarrassing really

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Was with a girl that I was really into and it had been building for some time then I couldn’t get hard and it ruined the moment. I think I was just overthinking about wanting to do a good job

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Wanted to finally seal the deal with someone and I knew before hand the pressure I was putting on myself. Rest assured I kept going soft and couldn’t climax

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I worry about getting hard which just makes the problem worse. I’m so focused on figuring out if I’m hard enough that I’m not enjoying the moment.

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I get in my head when i realise im going soft and then it get worse

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I haven’t had sex in over a year and it was only with my first girlfriend. I’ve been with women ever since but couldn’t get hard. My anxiety about performance kills me

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Entering an intimate situation immediately feels like a mind game with myself, where I immediately imagine myself a few steps ahead, already unable to get hard

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Yes

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I agree that no matter what I’m doing or how much I want to be intimate with the person, it just doesn’t happen with my penis. My penis and my brain go in opposite directions.

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I’m thinking that I won’t be able to get hard way before and can’t get the thought out of my head

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Spectatoring, watching my arousal, takes me away from the experience and connection with my partner

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I’ve gotten to the point where my anxiety gets the best of me way before the intimacy even begins

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I notice and it’s over

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I think all of the above cross my mind. I can even feel
My adrenaline and heartbeat increasing now just thinking about it. My wife is so gorgeous and deserves better than me.

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I lose sensation during sex and wonder If im still completely hard. Once the doubt is in my head its not long before I completely lose my erection

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Oh man, happened to me also. Did it ruin the relationship? Or did you work through it

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Dude I have the same exact problem! Hard, switch positions, or condom. Go soft, then need to get head. Hard again then goes back to soft