I (23) have struggled with getting an erection during sexual encounters for years. I have had four major girlfriends since high school and have experienced this with each of them.
Recently I started talking to another girl. I had four failed sexual experiences with her where I was not able to get hard. It became a lot of pressure for her and we decided to just be friends.
After some time we started talking again and I had one more experience where things did not work out. I showed her my near flaccid penis in an attempt to show vulnerability and hopefully make myself more comfortable.
Tonight I had one more chance and I was about to give up on myself. I was set on leaving her place and going home and she told me once more that she couldn’t keep doing this. I decided to give it one last shot before leaving and be totally vulnerable.
Through the vulnerability I was able to get an erection and we had sex for the first time. This is such a relief and I feel so proud in myself. I was finally able to let go and I know from past experiences that this will make things much easier in the future with this person.
Mojo has helped me immensely. Being able to talk to someone (even ai) that helps me understand my problems has been a life saver.
Do not give up on yourself, as it does get better. After this experience I can continue to work through my struggles with confidence in myself. Thank you for reading and good luck!