Hi all. This is my first post. A little over 4 months ago I had an affair with. I disclosed to my wife snd after many hard conversations we are reconciling. We are very sexual with intimacy daily which is amazing. But we don’t have sex much and when we do I am hit with overwhelming guilt and
shame which kills my Erection. Has Anyone had this. ?
I had a similar issue with an ex years ago. We had to really dive into communicating the unmet/unknown needs conversation, and focus on making each other feel safe and supported. The goal of sex wasn’t to get off necessarily, but to make each other feel good and to connect. That intention definitely helped get us back in the groove.