I need help with this

Long story short I am 29 and haven’t lost virginity (rip).

I really struggle with getting hard when I am getting intimate… I know it’s the anxiety as I can get hard alone. I had a girl spend the weekend with me and while there were times I was able to get hard I completely lost the erection when putting the condom on.

Seeing her in about 40 days and need to make sure this doesn’t happen again… advise greatly appreciated it.

Honestly try a tadifil/cialis. Can give you a little boost.

Explore fantasies each day. Different ways to fuck her, go down on her, etc. it will help build confidence and build up your mojo