I am a sex trafficking survivor so I check out mentally when having sex even if it’s consensual
I am a survivor so I tend to check out mentally when having sex even if it’s consensual
For me its always been a lack of knowledge/experience and way too self conscious/embarrassed to talk about it as it was taboo growing up, not shameful just private & never discussed. Add in my 1st time was being rapes and resulted in pregnancy at 14. Stretchmarks, gossip, and freshman year in a new city only compounded my insecurities.
Yes the suggestion that worrying about how I look and also preforming are known and common issues
I have a hard time shutting off my brain and just focusing on what my body is feeling. I try and tell myself to focus but that just gets my mind going even more because I’m yelling at myself in my head.
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My self confidence.
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i overthink im taking too long and that he’s getting tired.
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i dont even know what i enjoy myself
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It’s either one or all of the following for me, can’t shut my brain off, feeling self conscious about my body, or worried about him