Do you notice it before, during, or after sex?
Before during and after
Mostly during but occasionally before
Always befroe. Once I know ot going to happen and actually I feel my ANS fire
Before and during
Before during and after. Notoriously I’ve been subject to a bombarding of ,” you should be hard already.” Type of thoughts before.
During, it’s “you should be harder, you should already be ready to have intercourse, why aren’t you ready?”
After is, well I guess this is the way you are now.
Usually right before.
On the drive over to a girls place, a phone call with her or sometimes even just a thought - I get an erection.
But when the time comes to perform, I have zero sexual desire.
It’s like my mind goes blank and my body is numb.
All 3
Before and during.
All 3
During and after
Before and during
As soon as something starts going wrong
Before and incase I get hard during sex
Before. Mostly before
before, during and after
Often as soon as I’m hard and there’s a mutual expectation/hope that I put on a condom and we have penetrative sexual. The moment any thoughts come in has previously killed the erection and made it super difficult to bring back
Always before, never during or after
Mostly during or the second I get a feeling of ‘this is not quite going how I hoped’.
Usually before - and during - and afterwards I’m just disappointed