Before 100%
Before
Before and occasionally during
All three.
Mostly before and during, after not so much its more sad/embarassment
Before, and after if it doesn’t go to plan. Usually if I’m performing I can be in the moment no problem
Before and during … while I am getting ready and/or trying to perform
Before and during
Definitely all three… But I think before has the most impact… If you go in with the IDEA that you’re gonna fail… You’re probably gonna fail.
Before and during
Should be hard by now or why I am not hard … and also she is not enjoying herself
Before and during. Sometimes when I get it in her the thoughts overpower the sensation and lead to failure.
Why am I not hard
I notice long before and then in the moment
before and during
Definitely before, you beat yourself up thinking you’ll fail
Long before, during and after
This process with Mojo has help me eliminate the negative thought all the way up to the moment of intercourse. I just need to break that one by staying with sensation rather than evaluating and second guessing.