I’m honestly so stressed with interviews, I have been neglecting my habits. I still try to workout too. My mind has been on this girl for so long and I’m starting to overthink. I’m trying to give her benefit of the doubt but I wanna keep hanging out with her. I have been distracting myself with porn and working out and also been stressed with interviews. I’m 27, and honestly feel lost. I am working towards better things to hopefully move out of my parents but I’m in a high cost of living area so it sucks.
Take it from someone older - don’t wait for everything to be perfect before making your move. Two reasons: first, there is never a perfect time, something else will always be there to get in the way. Second, no matter how great she seems from a distance, chances are she’s still trying to figure stuff out herself.
Best wishes for the job interviews.
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Any tips to just keep my momentum forward? I really hope for the best for myself, and I also don’t wanna feel like I’m taking too long for this girl I like. Although she’s younger than me and the vibes are good, and we have great body language, what should I do
You know the situation best but if I was in your position I’d keep simple. My first move is always coffee or lunch. Low pressure and mutually convenient but still a good enough opportunity see if there’s a spark.