Everything about it overwhelms me… any time i get worked up i can never get that release! I just do not know what to do
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How long it takes
How long it takes, the fact that I can’t stay present mentally, how easy it is to “lose” the feeling even when you’re close and that I need to use my hand or a toy to be able to finish during penetrative sex.
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He always thinks that I’m not pleased because I didn’t have a massive explosion which means that I’m not having an orgasm, which makes him feel insecure. I don’t like that he stops a lot because of breathing issues which causes me to go from hot to cold quickly
I hate the the stop and go game that he plays trying to extend the amount of time that it takes him to nut. It’s odd because by the time he does, I’m completely over it and just want to be done with it
I’m worried that he will get tired or bored or lose erection if he has to put the time and energy in to actually make me orgasm.
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I worry about him and the time it’s going to take, I’m also thinking about what my body looks like the entire time.
I’m to hyper focused on what my body looks like I have so many scars so I’m not very present during Dec then it’s over so quickly
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I feel like I’m about to pee and feel my body tensing up and I wanna release but it feels like it won’t come out
25 years ago I was so comfortable sexually I would squirt all over my ex and he absolutely loved it. Now that I’m 42 I’m finding it harder and harder to squirt. Especially when my boyfriend tells me to do it when he’s going down on me. I feel guilty to the point to where I can’t because I’m in my head too much.
To be honest I get bored half way through. Like I get close to orgasm but then it all goes
I feel like when I’m close I just lose it
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I’ve never orgasmed before. I think I tend to focus more on pleasing my partner and can sometimes feel insecure about how I look that it prevents me from being able to stay in the moment & get there.
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The pressure I put on myself to orgasm or squirt, or to show my partner that I’m enjoying what he’s doing. Also my wandering mind goes to things that aren’t sexy
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I tend to get dry after a while and that causes me to lose interest… I can’t stay focused
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I feel like nobody knows what to do for me to enjoy including myself
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Not knowing how to let my partner know that I need a little more something.
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That i cant do it when I want to
I feel like before I had my kids it was easier for me to climax.
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I always feel like “I’m so close” and it builds and builds then boom it just vanishes… Over and over again.. I’m often brought to tears which can really confuse my partners in the moment, and lead them feeling uncomfortable or even killing the entire thing for them… Then I’m a failure, like I can’t even f*fk right.
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