What stands out to you most as your orgasm blocker, or blockers?

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If even just one aspect of sex feels off, it can be enough to block your orgasm.

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Can’t with partner but easily alone

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Not giving instruction on what I like around my clit and not giving it enough time

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Think he just doesn’t spend enough time on it

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Not sure he cares if I orgasm or not & not sure of his reaction to talking about it

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He wants it 24/7. It’s too much for me. Like I think (for me) I should have 10-29 min, but we do it like hours. It feels REALLY good, but again, it’s too much. And I don’t know how to tell him stop in a way that it won’t shame him. Can someone help me?

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Can’t with a partner only myself

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My mind

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Little bit of everything!

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Everything really, but mainly my own thoughts

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I think I’m just so used to not having one, that Im just naturally expecting not to have one .. Potentially throwing a landmine in the path to actually reaching one. If that makes any sense.

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Same here!!! I just think in my mind, oh I never have an orgasm with my partner, I’m not gonna have an orgasm with time. It probably sends off the wrong signal to your clitoral tissue! We can rewrite our mindset tho!!

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Overthinking and concreted mindset that I won’t come because I never have, or rarely do. And struggle to stay that something doesn’t feel good, because I don’t know what feels good

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I’m constantly wondering if I am doing what my partner needs so he can climax as well. He does Everytime with no set backs, but I don’t want to just lay there like a dead fish while he does everything and spends forever trying to get me in the right spot for orgasm, which is nearly impossible. I even get tired and frustrated, and just want to give up a lot of the time, why wouldnt he?

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Definitely a huge over-thinker

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Im an overthinker an really insecure

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My confidence

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In my head about how long it will take, confidence in bed, feeling of playfulness/safety

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I don’t feel sexy or good enough as my partner never comes near me and when he does he can’t stay hard or cum

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Not feeling like I am satisfying them